Saturday, October 7, 2023

The Path

 Once upon a time, in a quiet little community, lived a teenager named Asim and his father, Mohd Ashiq (Mr. Khan). They were known throughout the community for their remarkable bond, a bond that had grown stronger over the years.




Mr. Khan was a dedicated engineer, and he often brought Asim to his workplace. As a young boy, Asim would watch in awe (surprised ) as his father designed various amazing structures and solved complex problems. Mr. Khan would patiently explain the artistics of engineering, teaching Asim not only about his profession but about life itself.




One day, as they worked side by side in Mr. Khan's office, Mr. Khan handed Asim a blueprint and said, "Son, this blueprint is like life. It may seem complex and challenging, but with love, care, and patience, we can design a future that's truly remarkable." These words left a lasting impression on Asim.




As the years passed, Asim grew into a teenager, facing the ups and downs of adolescence. He encountered difficult decisions, academic pressures, and the uncertainty of the future. Through it all, Mr. Khan was there, offering guidance and unwavering support.




One particularly stormy night, when Asim was battling with a tough decision about his academic path, he turned to his father for advice. Mr. Khan listened attentively, and instead of providing a direct solution, he asked, "What do you believe is the right path for you, Asim?" This simple question encouraged Asim to think critically and trust his instincts) abilities.




Over time, Asim realized that his father had been nurturing not just his engineering knowledge but his character. The love, care, and trust they shared had built a bridge of mutual understanding between them.




One sunny afternoon, while working together on a project, Asim smiled at his father and said, "Papa, you've taught me more than just engineering. You've taught me about life, about love, and about how to be a good person." Tears came up in Mr. Khan's eyes as he embraced his son, knowing that their bond was unbreakable.




The story of Asim and his father, the engineer, reminds us that the love between a father and son goes beyond professions. It's a bond nurtured through time, care, trust, and understanding, and it can shape not only structures but also the character of a young person, helping them design a future that's truly remarkable.




Conclusion and question- this wasn't the reality but the story. Erase the name of Mr. Khan and put your name there. Do you think you're able to provide this life to him? Whatever the path you're following, will lead him also into the same direction. How sure you're about it?




The most impactful moments in this journey were when Asim needs his father's unwavering support, are you always there, guiding him with love and wisdom. Asim's life would mirror your actions, proving that brothers' love and guidance during a his most challenging moments could lead to a remarkable and fulfilling path. Their story serves as a powerful reminder that this could be his life, but it is not. You're the reality and his idols- with love, care, and trust, we can overcome life's most complex challenges. It teaches us that the support of a mentor, in this case, a brother- we as family, can shape our destinies and lead us to become the best versions of ourselves.

Monday, September 18, 2023

Moonstruck

 Woh Ek hi chehra to nahi saare jahan mein


Jo dur hain woh dil se utar kyu nahi jata..


Woh khawab jo barso se na chehra na badan hain


Woh khawab hawaon mein bikhar kyu nahi jata..🤍🥀


Kabhi mein chaand ko dekhte hue ye sochti hun, ki us khubsurat zameen se ye zameen kitni rounak se shumaar dikhti hogi, yahan lakho nhi hazaro nhi balki anginat log rahte hai..fir bhi woh ek shaks hmari puri zindagi ki khushiyon ki wajah kaise BN skta hai.. zindagi waqai haseen hai, Gulzar hai lekin agar isme mohabbat ki Kami hai to isse badtar koi jagah nhi..ye bhi ek bada ajeeb ittefaq hai ki boht se logo ko chaand mein apni khushiyan Nazar aati hai, kyunki usme hamare pasandida shakas ka chehra nazar aata hai

An unknown mistake

 Have you ever felt like you were on top of the world, only to come crashing down when you realized that you've made a huge mistake? It's a feeling that no one wants to experience, especially when the mistake has already caused someone to get hurt a lot. In this blog post, I'll share my personal story of realizing a mistake two years too late and the painful regret that came with it.


It was during lockdown when days were really hectic to pass, and I was going about my studies and health when I received a message from an old friend (Didn't recognise that time). I was not excited to catch up with people since I found the conversation strange I hadn't spoken with others in a while. When someone experiences the loss of a loved one, it can be devastating and difficult time. Even after years the process of grieving took a long time for me. The support of friends and family was invaluable. The conversation was exactly accurate as in my experience helping others, it is important to offer a listening ear, it is important to offer a listening ear, providing a space where theu can express their feelings without judgement or interruption. It's also important to offer practical support, such as simply being there for them when they need someone to talk to. Recovery from grieve js a journey that takes time and patience, but with the right support, it is possible to find hope and healing. 


At the time, I had been preoccupied with my own life and had taken his conversation for granted. I never realized how much it was meant to me until it was too late.During the conversation, he mentioned that he had suffered with my rude behaviour and was not doing well because of it, I left the conversation and never talked again back. Today when I thought about lockdown one of the moments made me remember about it and that's when it hit me: I had completely forgotten and never thought that how my this move will make me hurt and what can be the consequences. The pain of being unfair hit me hard, and I never knew that I had to take responsibility for my mistake.


But what could I do now? Two years had passed, and he had already moved on with his life. Now as I realise it today I decided to send him a heartfelt message apologizing for my mistake and expressing how much I valued his kind gesture. I am so perplexed with this decision, thinking he mah respond positively and we would be able to reconnect.


This experience taught me a valuable lesson: to never take the people in my life for granted. It's easy to get caught up in our own lives and forget about the important relationship we have. But when we do this, we risk losing them forever.


Regret is a powerful emotion, and it's not something that anyone wants to experience. But sometimes, it's necessary to go through the pain of regret in order to learn and grow. If you've realized a mistake after someone has left your life, don't beat yourself up too much. Instead, take responsibility for your actions and reach out to that person if possible. You never know, they might just be waiting for your 

message.



Sunday, September 17, 2023

 Well, it's 1:19 AM, 25 August 2023, I am here for someone special. She has birthday next month and I'm waiting for the big day. I know it has many days left but still I am going to write it to check something and to wish her by being the 1st person. The twist in this wait is amazing for me as I am not going to wish her on that particular day because I want to see what she expects from me. Does she notice it that I forgot her birthday or not? Will it be impactful or not? If she gets angry because I won't wish her, that means she actually looks for my wish too. She's probably going to think that I don't even remember it, I will ignore the day complety.😛


Alright, so here we go- 


Laxmi's birthday is just around the corner, and I can't help but think about what an incredible person she is. So, I want to write this special blog to wish her a fantastic day and let everyone know why she's so awesome.


"Happy Birthday, Laxmi: You're Amazing!" ❤️


Laxmi, you're like a ray of sunshine in our lives. Even when things get tough, you show incredible bravery and never give up. It's something I admire a lot. Your courage helps you do great in your work and handle real-life situations like a pro.




But it's not just about your achievements; it's about your kindness and positive attitude that make you truly special. You have a big heart, and you always see the good in people and situations. That's a rare and wonderful quality.




Laxmi, as you celebrate another year of your amazing journey, I want you to know how lucky I am to have you as a friend, not just a student. Your friendship has made my life better. You've taught me what real happiness means, not just by talking about it, but by living it.




On your special day, I wish you lots of joy, love, and success. May your future be as bright as your smile, guiding you to even greater things and more happiness.


Happy birthday, Laxmi, my wonderful friend and an inspiration to us all. May your days ahead be as fantastic as you are. 🎂🎉🌟


With warm 

wishes,


[Aisha Noor]




Wednesday, August 23, 2023

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Woh bachpan tha..aj se 13 - 14 saal pahle meri daadi ki death Hui thi..woh meri pahli yaad hai daadi ke shahr ki isse pahle hum wahan kabhi gye ho to mujhe woh yaad nhi..meri daadi ki death ke baad pahli baar hum waha 1 mahine se jyada ruke the..


Boht se naye logo se mile..or unme ek woh shaks bhi the jo usi din se meri zindagi ka Marqaz ban gye.. daadi ke Ghar ki yaadon mein woh masum chehra hamesha mujhe wese hi yaad aata hai..


Hum un dino Kai baar unke Ghar gye jb mujhe pta chala ki woh kis tarah ke log hai, or bhi bohot si baatein thi Jo wahan hui..in short maine ek hi insaan ke baare mein itni dhyan se koi baat pahli baar hi suni thi..Maine unki baat pr jaankr dhyan Diya or notice Kiya ki woh namazi hai, farmabardaar hai or bhi bahut kuch hai jo unhe khaas bnata hai.. shayad wahi impression meri rooh pr chhap gya tha jiska asar Aaj bhi hai 

Apne ghar aane ke kaafi time baad bhi mujhe wahan ki saari baatein yaad aati rhi..mein kabhi kabhi us register ko padhti hun jisme Maine unke liye Allah taala se bohot saari duaen ki thi kyunki mujhe hamesha se hi likhna pasand hai..unki qamayabi, khushiyon ke liye or har us jaez chiz ke liye jiski unke Dil ko tamnna ho or aajtak shayad hi esa koi din hoga Jo Bina unke haq mein maange guzar gya ho.. starting mein mujhe lgta tha ki time ke according baat badal jaegi lekin hairaani ki baat thi ki 3 saal baad jb hum dobara wahan ek shaadi mein gye mere mind se ek bhi baat nhi badli thi.. Esa nhi tha ki unka ya hmara ana jaana boht jyada rha ho or is tarah unki baatein mere zahn se nhi miti thi in fact saalo baad dekhne pr bhi hamesha same focus tha

Maine unhe itne saalo mein Kai baar dur se dekha tha lekin kabhi baat nhi ki..esa nhi tha ki himmat nhi thi bs baat karne se lga ki shayad unki achi chhavi meri kisi baat se kharab na ho jae..woh bete or bhai hai to unki kaafi zimmedari hai, ye sochkar Maine kabhi baat na karna hi bahtr samjha..unki chhoti chhoti si baat khush kar deti hai ya fir mayus..woh bachpan tha jb se aajtak hadd mein rahkar ek project ki tarah maine hamesha apna dhyan unhi pr rakha..

Meri unse kabhi koi mulaqat ya baat nhi Hui..lekin coincidentally Hui baat mein unke alfaz, unka chahra, unki nazar hamesha mere mind mein video clips ki Tarah ghumte rhte hai

When somebody asks me- if I have a boyfriend or if I'm in any relationship. I particularly don't have any idea how to explain it because since childhood its always about myself. Every time I saw the mirror I always found his reflection in myself. Some things can never be shared by words by they are in that way.

Itne saal mein unke liye mere mann mein respect badhti rhi hai.. parents ke baad unki mere Dil mein ek khaas jagah..kabhi kabhi dukh hota hai ki ho skta hai aane wale zindagi mein unki awaaz ya jhalak bhi shayad mujhe na mile..Mera yakeen tha Allah taala ne jise itna amazing bnaya ho..wahi jaanta hai iss baat ka kya result hoga

Ye baat fantasy/filmy stories ki Tarah full of madness lagti hai..lekin meri zindagi ka lamba arsa isi madness mein bita hai..boht si achi yaadein hai..

Kam bolna, alag rahna, attitude hai..maine ye baat hmesha suni hai ki mujhe samjhna mushkil hai or the way I think and do the things that's crazy but mujhe isi tarah pasand hai (There's no difference in a day, a year, a decade or lifetime because nothing can change what soul has consumed.. the amount of forgetting is like forgetting myself which is beyond the Idea of time.)

Bohot Kam log meri tarah lucky hote hai, jo kisi ki rooh ko chahe hr achchai or burai ko nazarandaaz karkr..Allah ke Fazal se mujhe hamesha qamayabi mili hai..mujhe Khushi hoti hai ki tarakki dekhkar..kyunki dua hmesha bahtrai ki hai chahe Mera Nishan bhi unki zindagi ka hissa na ho


The Path

 Once upon a time, in a quiet little community, lived a teenager named Asim and his father, Mohd Ashiq (Mr. Khan). They were known throughou...